Embracing Positivity Amidst Negativity: Your Guide to Staying Positive

Embracing Positivity Amidst Negativity: Your Guide to Staying Positive

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Discover practical strategies and uplifting quotes to stay positive even when surrounded by negativity. Learn how to maintain a resilient mindset, embrace gratitude, limit exposure to negativity, and focus on personal growth. Empower yourself to rise above the negativity and cultivate a positive outlook.

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Life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes we find ourselves surrounded by negativity. It could be a challenging work environment, a pessimistic social circle, or simply a series of unfortunate events. Regardless of the circumstances, it’s essential to maintain a positive outlook and nurture a resilient mindset. In this blog post, we’ll explore strategies to stay positive even when everyone else around you seems negative. Additionally, we’ll sprinkle in some inspiring quotes to fuel your positive thinking journey.

Embracing Positivity Amidst Negativity: Your Guide to Staying Positive

1. Recognize your control: While you may not be able to control the negativity around you, you have full control over your own attitude and mindset. Remember that your response to negativity is within your power. Focus on what you can change rather than dwelling on things beyond your control.

Quote: “The only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday.” – Unknown

 

2. Surround yourself with positivity: Seek out individuals who radiate positivity and inspire you. Surrounding yourself with like-minded people can provide the support and encouragement needed to maintain a positive mindset. Engage in activities that bring you joy and spend time with loved ones who uplift your spirits.

Quote: “Surround yourself with people who believe in your dreams, encourage your ideas, support your ambitions, and bring out the best in you.” – Roy T. Bennett

3. Practice gratitude: Developing a gratitude practice can significantly shift your focus from negativity to positivity. Take time each day to reflect on things you’re grateful for, no matter how small they may seem. This simple act can help reframe your perspective and cultivate a sense of contentment.

Quote: “Gratitude turns what we have into enough and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity… it makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” – Melody Beattie

4. Limit exposure to negativity: While it’s not always possible to completely eliminate negative influences, you can take steps to limit your exposure to them. Be mindful of the media you consume, the conversations you engage in, and the environments you choose to spend time in. Surround yourself with positive content, uplifting books, and motivational podcasts.

Quote: “Protect your spirit from contamination. Limit your time with negative people.” – Thema Davis

5. Focus on personal growth: Invest in your personal growth and continuous learning. Engage in activities that align with your interests and goals. By focusing on your own development, you can create a positive momentum that propels you forward, regardless of external circumstances.

Quote: “The only way that we can live is if we grow. The only way we can grow is if we change. The only way we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open.” – C. JoyBell C.

6. Practice self-care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Engage in activities that recharge and rejuvenate you, such as exercising, meditating, practicing mindfulness, or pursuing a hobby. Prioritizing self-care allows you to build resilience and maintain a positive outlook even in challenging situations.

Quote: “Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” – Lucille Ball

Staying positive when everyone else around you is negative can be a real challenge, but it’s crucial for your well-being and personal growth. By recognizing your control, surrounding yourself with positivity, practicing gratitude, limiting exposure to negativity, focusing on personal growth, and practicing self-care, you can navigate the challenging landscape with grace and optimism.

Remember, staying positive doesn’t mean ignoring or denying the existence of negativity. It means choosing to respond in a way that empowers you and allows you to maintain your inner peace. By incorporating these strategies into your daily life, you can become a beacon of positivity, inspiring others around you to adopt a more optimistic mindset.

In the face of adversity, you possess the strength to rise above negativity and create a positive ripple effect in your life and the lives of those around you. Embrace the power of positivity, and let it guide you towards a brighter and more fulfilling future.

 

Quote: “Your positivity can become a castle around you that no negativity can penetrate.” – Brittany Burgunder

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So, let us embark on this journey together, where positivity becomes our armor, and our unwavering belief in the goodness of life becomes our driving force. Remember, staying positive is not always easy, but it is always worth it.

As you navigate the sometimes stormy seas of negativity, hold fast to the light within you, and let it illuminate your path. Choose positivity, embrace gratitude, and be the positive change you wish to see in the world.

Quote: “You have within you right now, everything you need to deal with whatever the world can throw at you.” – Brian Tracy

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How to Get A Well-Rested and Better Sleep

How to Get A Well-Rested and Better Sleep

If you are looking to develop a better bedtime routine to help you fall asleep easier, I will walk you through how to go about that in today’s post.

Keep on reading to find out!

This post is sponsored by PURPLE. All opinions are my own.

There’s a time when you don’t know why you can’t get a good night’s rest. You blame it on stress. Your daily mood seems to be unpleasant on the day you don’t get a good enough rest. I experienced quite often when I did some activities that would block me from going to bed. For example, drinking too much caffeine during the day, feeling stressed and anxious about certain things, overthinking, and couldn’t get comfortable with my mattress and pillow.

Different factors come to play with people who have a hard time falling asleep. You have to notice what the causes are that make you have a sleeping issue. To help you get started with a better sleep routine, below are things you should be doing.

Tips to Get A Well-Rested and Better Sleep

ONE: If you are a caffeine drinker, make sure you don’t drink caffeine at night.

Overloading on caffeine during the day and a few hours before bed may prevent you from sleeping as caffeine blocks the adenosine receptor. This sleep-promoting chemical is produced in the brain during our waking hours. When caffeine blocks this process, we remain alert and vigilant. Caffeine notably reduces the time of slow-wave sleep, which is the stage of deep, restful sleep that leaves us feeling refreshed and alert in the morning. If you want to drink the caffeinated drink, you still can. But you shouldn’t be drinking any less than six hours before your bedtime. (source

TWO:  Make sure your room is clutter-free and peaceful.

Clutter-free and clean rooms are always the best way to get a good night’s rest. Think about it, when you go to a hotel, that clean, open, and free space just makes you want to relax. So why not try the same at home? Take anything out of the bedroom that doesn’t belong and only keep things that promotes a relaxing environment. Adding lavender essential oils to your diffuser makes the room more relaxing and promotes calming sleep. This simple step will get you feeling more relaxed and peaceful when it’s time to call it a day. It helps fight the common cold. 

 

 

THREE:  Do not look at bright screens before bedtime.

Research has shown that the blue lights on your smartphone, laptop, and TVs trick your brain into staying awake. Your brain will have difficulty adjusting from looking at your phone screen and being in an awake mode to trying to close your eyes for bedtime. The best thing to do is to have a set time when you will no longer look at screens before bed. Give yourself an hour or so to wind down and not look at your phone. 

 

FOUR:  Don’t eat right  before going to bed. 

We all have those cravings before bed as it has been some time since you had dinner and are getting ready for bed. Eating right before sleep will make you more restless and find it harder to fall asleep. This is because your metabolism has to breakdown the food you just ate. Not only that, that the created heat from breaking down your dinner makes in more uncomfortable when trying to sleep. Best practice, don’t eat anything for at least 2 hours before bedtime. This gives your body ample time to break down your food and calm down.

 

 

FIVE: Calm your mind with yoga, meditation, or relaxation music.  

If you ever find yourself not being able to sleep, it might be caused by a busy mind. The best way to combat this is by doing some light activities like yoga or meditation. By clearing your mind from a busy day allows your body to relax and get in the mode of sleep. Listing to relaxing music is also a good idea, just nothing fast-paced or loud.

 

SIX: Make yourself a sleeping and waking up schedule.  

Having a routine sleep schedule will help train your brain and body to fall asleep and wake up at specific times. This is a simple and easy step you can take to help make your sleeping habits more pleasant. You can start by creating a good night time routine and stick with it to see your sleeping patterns and progress. Adjust it as you go along to make your sleep better.

 

SEVEN:Pay attention to your mattress, bedsheets, and pillows. 

 

It goes without saying that a relaxing sleep must include a proper setup. Invest in a high-quality mattress, soft bed sheets, and a comfortable pillow.

Purple gave me a chance to try out there new patented purple grid technology in- the Harmony Pillow. This is the world’s first and only pillow with Purple Grid™ Hex, which instantly adapts to your head and neck for total support. 

 

The Purple Grid™ Hex is specially formulated and engineered for head and neck support with the soft hexagon-shaped air channels that optimize the dynamic response and airflow for maximum comfort. 

 

360º Purple Grid™ Hex instantly adapts for total no Pressure® Support. 1,500+ open-air channels let air flow freely, so you’re always on the cool side of the pillow. Moisture-wicking Breeze Mesh cover complements the cool, soft support of the pillow.

 

Once I laid on it for some time, I could feel the pillow staying cool without absorbing my body heat. I usually would sweat during the night when sleeping on my regular pillow, but I am very impressed that I felt cool and comfortable all night with this one. When I woke up in the morning, my neck and shoulders felt great-which is a plus. It was very nice to finally find a super comfy pillow that keeps me sleep tight all night long. 

 

My daughter and husband love this pillow too. I will have to get a few more for all of us. 🙂 

 

The downside of this pillow is the high price point of $159. However, I have to say it’s a good investment to help you get a deeper and better sleep. 

 

If you are interested in giving it a try, you can try the Purple® Harmony Pillow for up to 100 nights. If you don’t love it, return it for a full refund. Your Purple® Harmony Pillow is guaranteed to last and is protected by a 1-year limited warranty.

 

You can receive a 10% discount if you are Military members, Healthcare and Frontline workers, and Educators and students.

 

As you know, when it’s time to sleep, your bed should be the most comfortable and relaxing place to be in your home. You can learn more about PURPLE and their other products HERE.

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I hope you find helpful tips from this “How to get a well-rested and better sleep” post. Remember, you may need to develop a good habit, keep your bedroom environment clean and calm, take a break from overthinking, and find the right bed accessories that could potentially make you sleep comfortably. 

Have you check out my post on “Why We Choose to Build Our Home“. 

Thank you for stopping by All About Good Vibes.

Stay safe and sleep tight tonight!

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My New Favourite Running Shoes from adidas

My New Favourite Running Shoes from adidas

Sharing with you my new favourite running shoes from adidas. If you are looking for a new pair of good shoes to go for a walk or run, keep on reading. 

I also share a few quick facts to motivate you to go for a run or walk this week. 

Now, let’s dive right in!

This post has been sponsored by adidas. All opinions are my own.

If you like going on a walk, a morning jog, or a fun afternoon run, you don’t want to miss this post. Today, I want to introduce you to my new favourite slip-on shoes from adidas, Ultraboost Slip-On DNA Shoes, which I pretty much wear every day since I got them.

What I like about these adidas Ultraboost running shoes are:

1) They feature a slip-on design and a sock-like fit that makes it so easy and quick to wear.

2) How light and comfortable they are. 

3) They are very versatile and can be worn for any activities you are doing.

4) You can dress up or down with these shoes. Either you are thinking about a sporty chic or a classic look, you can create any of them with these shoes.

5) This product is made with Primeblue, a high-performance recycled material made in part with Parley Ocean Plastic. 50% of the upper is textile; 75% of the textile is Primeblue yarn—no virgin polyester.

I can’t say enough good things about these shoes- you have to feel them for yourself. These Ultraboost Slip-On DNA Shoes come in four colours, black, white, light pink and black with leopard sole. I have two pairs, one in black and one in white. My shoe size is 38, and they fit me perfectly.

Since we are talking about running shoes, I want to share a few quick facts to motivate you to go for a run or walk this week. 

Running and walking helps you burn calories.

You’ll burn about 100 calories if you walk one mile. If you walk five to eight miles, you’ll burn about 500 to 800 calories which is about the same as running for an hour. 

You will feel happier.

Your body will release a feel-good hormone called endocannabinoids, also known as “Runner’s High”, at some point. Endocannabinoids can move easily through the cellular barrier separating the bloodstream from the brain. These mood-improving neuromodulators promote short-term psychoactive effects such as reduced anxiety and feelings of calm. A study published in 2012 in the Journal of Adolescent Health found that just 30 minutes of running during the week for three weeks boosted sleep quality, mood, and concentration. (Source)

It helps fight the common cold. 

Even a quick, 30-minute workout can stimulate and boost your immune system and prevent you from catching a cold. Also, running and walking for about 30 to 45 minutes every day can improve a person’s immunity and help them fight off most diseases and illnesses. (Source)

For today’s look, I’m wearing the Believe This 3-Stripes Medium-Impact Rib Bra underneath a leopard-print bomber-length sweatshirt– made with French terry cotton fabric that is soft and lightweight. Their cotton products support sustainable cotton farming- this is part of adidas ambition to end plastic waste. ?? Pairing it with adidas Primeblue track pants– relaxed fit with ankle zips and side zipper pockets. Complete the look with my new favourite slip-on shoes.

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Now that you know why running and walking is good for you and where to get a good pair of running shoes: I hope you will have a fantastic walk and run next time. 

 

Thank you for stopping by my blog today. If you miss my last post on my life update, make sure to check out this post, “Why We Choose to Build Our Home“. 

 

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Why We Chose to Build Our Home

Why We Chose to Build Our Home

How January flew by like a wind in the storm. I think the older you get, the shorter the months are! Anyway, are you excited for February? Do you have any big plans coming up? I have a big project this month, and I am talking about it today in this post.

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Last month, my husband and I decided on our goal #10: Decide on my future home plan, either buying land and building my dream home, buying a new house, staying in our current home, or moving to a new country. So, we finally decided to sell our lovely first home and purchase land to build our dream house this year. 

 

At first, we were putting an offer for one of the houses we liked. It didn’t go through obviously as we were too late and the home already had nine other offers in front of us. Crazy right? So, we chose not to go through with it and reconsidered our options. 

 

After thinking back and forth, changing our mind a million and one times, re-asking ourselves what we should do, is it the right time, why do it, what makes it a plus than a minus, we agreed to one of the most crucial factors that life is too short, why wait? Let’s build the house and do whatever is going to fulfil life and make us happy.

I will be back on blogging more often again after things settling down. There is a lot of packing before we move to my parents-in-law house. We will be fixing their home while we are staying there too. I am excited to share with you all of the projects while building our home.

Here is a quick inspiration on how we want our home to look like.

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Here are a few reasons why we chose to build our home rather than buying one:

ONE: Design

We will build the home to look exactly how we want it. As I love designing and decorating my home, I am excited to bring my ideas and dream floor plan to life.

TWO: Price

It’s cheaper to build one rather than buying one.
After calculating the cost of buying a new home and building one, we found that building will be cheaper plus we will get the equity out of it when the house is finished.

THREE: Feng Shui

We will have a chance to pick the land, house number, house direction, and all things Feng Shui related, it wasn’t an easy process, but we will get what we want.

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We are excited to share our home building journey with you.

There are things in life that take time to achieve, but that doesn’t mean you have to wait to achieve it.

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Ten Midweek Self-Love Reminders

Ten Midweek Self-Love Reminders

Today, I am sharing with you some of my favorite midweek self-love reminders to help you go through your week mindfully and respectfully.

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Either it’s good food, good books, good laughs, or good rest that can get you through a tough week, make sure you do them. Your life is too short to stress over things that you can’t control. But you have the power and control over yourself.

Some times I found myself wandering around in my head. Dreaming and wishing, I could do more things and do it all in one day. Other times, I wish for a day to have more than 24 hours without realizing that what if it magically happened, would I have more time to take care of myself, or still spend those extra hours to stress even more.

All that we can do now is to do our best and appreciate what we already have. I wanted to share with you some quotes I found that are great reminders to practice self-love and self-care.

 

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Look beyond the sky, reach for the stars, and search for a new galaxy, aka "opportunities."- Mollie Larsen

ten self-love
REMINDERS:

One:

The one you are looking for is you. -Osho

@spiritualgangster 

Two:

Simplicity and clarity should be your theme in dress.

@kaysthetics3000

Three:

Trust the wait.

Embrace the uncertainty.

Enjoy the beauty of becoming.

When nothing is certain, anything is possible. 

@spiritualgangster

Four:

The only way to escape is to change.

@kaysthetics3000

Five:

Stop rushing

Create yourself

Touch without touching

Don’t be afraid to feel the pain before reacting-understand

Cry, laugh, dance, have a glass of wine

Love endlessly

Swim naked

Realize that you are important, loving, pretty, brave, beautiful, true, strong…. 

@frachella

Six:

You are allowed to change the price of what it costs to access you.

@_youthclub

Seven:

What you think of yourself is a lot more important than what other people think of you.

@_youthclub

Eight:

Always be kinder than you feel. – unknown

@spiritualgangster

Nine:

Look for something positive in each day even if somedays you have to look a little harder.

@kaysthetics3000

Ten:

Being grateful for what you currently have in the midst of getting what you want.

@wetheurban

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I hope you enjoy these words of wisdom and have the best rest of your week.

Have you checked out The Five Simple Keys to Measure Your Personal Growth, yet? 

Thank you for stopping by All About Good Vibes.

Stay safe and healthy, and I hope to see you back here again soon!

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